Is your relationship true love or could it be just lust, and does it have lasting power to endure a lifetime? People often ask this question once they begin a new relationship, and unbelievably there is a simple answer for this age-old question.
The first truth is if you are specifically looking for love all you will find is lust, sadly for everyone actually seeking a true love that is a reality. True love will discover you, and it will not let a person go no matter how firmly the person attempts to shove it away, that is a fundamental truth.
True love feels like magic, while lust will only make you wish you had the magic, if you have to push a relationship hard it is lust without a doubt. True love it will come easily over time it is a magic that cannot be pushed, and true love and lust will both leave you craving more, but what you desire is different.
True love will discover you even when you are not searching for it, and it will blow you off your feet and turn the world, as you know it upside down. While lust will make you breathless for an hour or so if you are fortunate, true love with leave you breathless with each kiss or touch over the lifetime of a relationship.
True love will leave you breathless, and as if you want to learn about your partner on every level, lust on the other hand will leave you feeling like you need to quench the thirst in your loins.
In true love, the sexual gratification is part of the relationship while in a lustful relationship is the only thing that is sought. You deserve the whole enchilada and should never reconcile for just lust, when the real magic of true love is out there for every one.
Lust is looking at someone whom has attractive qualities, you want those qualities, while with a true love, you look at your partner, and you want the whole package faults as well as the golden qualities.
Lust is waking up with some one who is a transient fancy, and true love is as waking up beside your best friend for the rest of your life there is no contest there.
True love is unconditional, and needs no words, while lust is all about excuses, conditional and very little words from the heart. With true love, there are no requirements to make excuses to ourselves or to others regarding the actions of our partner. A person who is truly in love with us while never just blow us off, or put the needs of others before us at any time.
True love is something we all want and sometimes we can actually find it, but it is always found accidentally. Love is not something you will discover as if you were seeking a misplaced set of keys, or a lost dog no matter how extraordinary that dog is.
True love knows no restrictions it will discover us when the conditions are right, and not when the planets are lined up properly and it is everlasting, ever changing, and ever growing.
True love is sitting quietly without words and enjoying time spend watching the world go by, it is walking hand in hand in the suns warmth, and under the moon’s glow, love is always present and never falling by the wayside when something better comes along.
Finally yet importantly, lust is for a small amount of seasons, while true love is for the duration of the seasons omnipresent and enduring.